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An Era-Shifting Speech on Education (VI)

PART 12: Restoring American Patriotism & Greatness


The call and goal of Self-Action Leadership is self-renewal which inevitably leads to organizational, national and then international renewal.

I am under no illusions about the difficulty of the task. Transformations of entire cultures do not happen overnight. It took many decades for postmodernism to become firmly entrenched in the academy and pollute our culture to the point it has today. Likewise, it will take many decades for the Age of Authenticism to fully blossom in the hearts of ourselves, our families, classrooms, universities, governing bodies, Nation, and the world-at-large.

The best way we can make the world a better place is to make America a better place, and we begin making America a better place by loving, serving, and rooting for our own country. Once again, in the sage words of President Teddy Roosevelt:

“A [person] must be a good patriot before he can be … a good citizen of the world. Experience teaches us that the average man who protests that his international feeling swamps his national feeling, that he does not care for his country because he cares so much for mankind, in actual practice proves himself the foe of mankind…
"Now, this does not mean in the least that a man should not wish to do good outside his native land. On the contrary, just as I think that the man who loves his family is more apt to be a good neighbor than the man who does not, so I think that the most useful member of the family of nations is normally a strongly patriotic nation.”[2]
Let us not fear, my fellow Americans to shower upon our homeland all the authentic love and patriotism she deserves, and let us not aspire toward the mean or mediocre out of a concern for offending other nations.

Indeed, other nations are great in large measure because the United States was first great, and many nations are presently floundering in part because the United States is currently floundering.

May we take great pride in the unapologetic exceptionalism of our August Nation, and may we choose to be self-action leaders who improve ourselves that we may lay hold more authentically on this singular claim and thereby enjoy the countless blessings derived of excellence.

Many years ago, I chose to dedicate my life and career to the Cause of Freedom. Fortunately, I am still a young man with the greater portion of my life and career still before me. But I cannot accomplish it alone.

Indeed, I, of myself, can do but little, but together, we can do much. I call upon everyone within the sound of my voice—literally or virtually—to rise up and reclaim the right of self-sovereignty our Creator and Founding Fathers endowed upon us as Americans.

Then, as each of us improves individually, one-by-one, organization-by-organization, governing body-by-governing body, may we each rise further to help our fellows do the same, in a united effort to restore American Greatness and Strength. I do not say this in any attitude of existential superiority; Americans are no better than anyone else inherently. I say this out of historical fact—and in my present hope for a better future for everyone in the world.

Along the way, may we strive to be a little more tolerant of and loving towards our neighbors and fellow citizens—regardless how they choose to vote or live their lives. May we, in the inspiring words of Stephen R. Covey, choose to be a light, not a judge.

And the next time you see the Stars & Stripes flutter majestically in the wind at your local school, church, or car dealership, I invite you to place your hand over your heart, bow your head, and allow the sensations of gratitude for all this Country has provided you to drown out whatever erstwhile angst may have simmered over past grievances. I assure you that your day will go a little better, and your heart will be a little lighter, if you do so.

No matter who you are, and regardless what your race, culture, political persuasion, religious affiliation, sexual orientation, etc., may be, I invite you to cultivate the desire to learn, the will to work, and the integrity to adhere to conscience—in short, to unite in an embrace of the true and virtuous principles of self-reliance, self-respect, and self-government upon which our Nation was founded, and upon which it became the greatest Nation on Earth. Such unity is our only real hope for collective success & prosperity.

May God Bless the United States of America by blessing each of us in our individual pursuits of self-renewal that we may yet honorably fulfill the sacred responsibility we all have of lifting and leading the rest of the world into the welcomed arms of safety, security, liberty, freedom, & peace.


PART 9: The Golden Mean


One worldview that harmonizes particularly well with SAL is Aristotelian philosophy, and more specifically, Aristotle’s concept of the Golden Mean. This concept holds that virtue, or the good, is to be found in a balance between extremes.
Aristotle’s famous philosophy posits that right thinking and doing cannot occur in the presence of either deficiency or excess. The implication, of course, is that virtually all extremes can be labeled, in the very least, as incorrect, and at the very most, as downright evil.

As President Theodore Roosevelt once put it, “We can just as little afford to follow the doctrinaires of an extreme individualism as the doctrinaires of an extreme socialism.” [1] Therefore, according to Aristotle and Roosevelt, the happy medium between or among extremes is where truth is most likely to be located.

While it is a great truth that there are usually exceptions to the rule—meaning that isolated scenarios and unusual circumstances may require extreme action for limited periods of time (as the saying goes, desperate times call for desperate measures)—in the great balance of things, truth is almost always found, well, in a balance of things!

PART 10: The Triadic Golden Mean of SAL


Truth, as defined by Self-Action Leadership, or SAL Philosophy, lies inside of a perfectly balanced triad consisting of three fundamental elements: Conscience, Common sense, and Rationality.

In other words, we must be willing to consult our brains, our experiences, and that of others (since that is where common sense wisdom comes from), and our own, authentic spiritual-visceral sense of what is right and what is wrong. 

The imbalance or neglect of any of these three, vital variables of the formula, will result in the wrong answers. Let me now address these three variables one at a time.

First, rationality. As human beings, we have been endowed with rational faculties that empower us to reason using sound logic and reliable scientific experimentation.

However, as all highly functioning rational beings know all too well, Mankind—despite its remarkable developments in science, medicine, and technology—still falls dismally short of anything that could be rightly called a perfect understanding of all things, and perhaps especially with regards to science.

For example, talk to any world renowned astronomer, and he or she will tell you there is a lot more we don’t know about the Universe than what we do know.

As such, and with a renewed effort to pursue scientific understanding to the fullest extent possible, let us honestly recognize and humbly accede the reality that we must yet make many decisions in life, both individually and collectively, that science alone cannot adequately address.

Thus, even the most rational of beings, must rationally turn to other avenues of wisdom when science alone fails to fully deliver. These avenues are: common sense (or experience), and conscience.

Let us first address the subject of common sense, which is rooted mainly in experience—both our own and that of others. In a world where common sense has become increasingly uncommon, where can we go to extract wisdom about this ironically elusive topic? The answer is: in the pages of history.

Despite the scientific verity that our Planet has existed in one state or another for some 4.5 billion years, we must, nonetheless, rely on a historical narrative and written record that is limited to only several thousand years. 

Despite this relatively short period of recorded history, we have been blessed with a fairly comprehensive canon of historical data on common sense. If we will study and learn from this record as an honest seeker of truth, we will be greatly empowered to live successfully in the present and build a better future for our children and their children.

As a starting point, may I suggest four (4) basic texts that will work wonders in restoring common sense and greatness to America.

  1. The Making of America: The Substance and Meaning of the Constitution by W. Cleon Skousen
  2. Citizenship in a Republic: by President Theodore Roosevelt. Speech delivered at the Sorbonne, Paris France, April 23, 1910. 
  3. A Message to Garcia: by Elbert Hubbard
  4. The Lessons of History, by Will and Ariel Durant 

PART 11: Conscience


Many difficulties and dilemmas we face as human beings can be effectively understood and addressed by rationality and common sense alone—but not all. In those moments of life when we are faced with challenges for which there lies neither scientific proof nor historical precedent, wherein can we turn?

The answer is Conscience—the light within.

One of our Nation’s sagest thinkers of yesteryear—Ralph Waldo Emerson—who built his career on a platform of scholarly skepticism of religious dogma, managed to still recognize the reality that something of significance resided within our minds, hearts, and spirits that transcended rationality. Perhaps this is why Emerson talked of “The Divine Knowledge,” and “The Over-Soul,” and suggested that “We are natural believers,” and that “nothing is at last sacred but the integrity of your own mind.”

No one can exercise true integrity without continually consulting his or her conscience—especially in matters where rationality and common sense alone are insufficient. Conscience can be dulled by ignoring its whisperings and acting contrary to its visceral commands. This is how our country has dulled its collective conscience. 

The only way to regain this collective conscience is for individuals to take a leadership role in reclaiming moral influence in the face of moral entropy.

It is up to YOU, and it is up to ME, to choose to listen to and follow our consciences in a good-faith effort to follow the counsel of Gandhi—to be the change we wish to see in our nation and in the world.



[1] From Roosevelt’s speech, Citizens in a Republic, delivered at the Sorbonne in Paris, France on April 23, 1910. 
[2] From Roosevelt’s speech, Citizens in a Republic, delivered at the Sorbonne in Paris, France on April 23, 1910. 

SAL Book: Things that Enslave Part 4

SHACKLE 8:
THE IRRESPONSIBLE CARE AND USE OF SEX


A couple of experiences I had as a 9th Grade English teacher in Houston, Texas, illustrate some of the negative, real-life consequences of sexual irresponsibility. The first experience occurred while teaching the designated novel for the year—a juvenile work of fiction entitled Speak, written by Laurie Halse Anderson. This book was the year’s most popular literary selection among students.
Speak, which was also made into a movie, tells the story of a teenage girl who was raped at a party prior to the start of her ninth-grade year. The book follows the protagonist through the year as she struggles with the difficult and painful consequences of her terrible victimization. Perhaps the most memorable thing from my experience teaching this book was reading Anderson’s own words about her experience traveling around the country to promote her book, whereby she discovered a trend that was disturbing, to say the least. In an answer to the question: Have any readers ever asked questions that shocked you?[1] Anderson replied:

I have gotten one question repeatedly from young men. These are guys who liked the book, but they are honestly confused. They ask me why Melinda was so upset about being raped. 
The first dozen times I heard this, I was horrified. But I heard it over and over again. I realized that many young men are not being taught the impact that sexual assault has on a woman. They are inundated by sexual imagery in the media, and often come to the (incorrect) conclusion that having sex is no big deal. This, no doubt, is why the numbers of sexual assaults is so high.[2]

If a young man believes that rape is a casual thing and no big deal, he has clearly received poor training in Self-Action Leadership. If young people everywhere were trained in subjects like reverence, rectification, self-discipline, honesty, humility, compassion, kindness, courtesy, self-observation, and self-awareness, there would be fewer uneducated boys and men in this country with cavalier attitudes toward women and sex. There would also be fewer unwanted pregnancies, sexually transmitted diseases, and abortions.

My second experience occurred one day when a shy, diffident, young woman asked my female co-teacher if she could speak with her in private. Once outside the classroom, she divulged to my colleague that she had had sex with a boy who secretly videotaped their tryst and was now spreading the video around the school. My horrified co-teacher listened to her and then directed her to the proper administrative channels to appropriately address the situation.

I could only imagine what this young girl must have been going through mentally and emotionally during this horrific turn of events. My heart went out to her in her time of anguish. My heart also ached with the knowledge that such an unfortunate series of incidents could have been prevented with the proper education.

Sex is a serious act. Once engaged in, you cannot ‘take it back.’ Sexuality is a powerful force that, if not properly disciplined, can devastate individuals, families, communities, and even entire nations. Sex education at home and at school should not only be about ‘safe sex’, but also about ‘ethical sex,’ and ‘foregoing sex’ until a time in life when you are fully capable of making wise decisions concerning its free expression.


I recently read an article [3] about a mother who was concerned about her college-aged son because of the tendency of the typical college student to get involved in drinking and sexual activity. Her advice? She encouraged her son to always remember to send and receive a text message before and after sexual activity to provide hard evidence that any forthcoming sexual activity is consensual. The goal? To avoid legal issues surrounding potential rape allegations.

Rather than teaching ethical sex, or even abstinence to avoid the problem altogether, this mother was more concerned with her son avoiding legal issues, an indictment, or even jail time in the case of a tryst heading south. Her justification? In her own words, she said, “Let’s face it, the sexual revolution is real.” Resigned to the fact that her son was simply a victim of cultural forces and his own libido, she decided to take matters into her own hands by drilling into him the importance of getting a “Yes” text. She also took the liberty to fill his suitcase full of condoms.

This woman’s controversial comments evince a growing societal acceptance that young people simply will not, or perhaps even cannot, control themselves in regards to sex. They must therefore resort to protective measures to minimize collateral damage for unbridled sexual expression.

In this mother’s defense, she did teach her son to respect women, and it is certainly not wrong to try to prevent a potential date rape allegation. I have no doubt she loves her son and is simply doing what she feels is right to help protect him – which is more than many parents do. What she does not seem to realize is that in her efforts to be a responsible parent, she is implicitly sanctioning sexual permissiveness, and perhaps drunkenness as well.

Click HERE for full article by Roxanne Jones

Never forget, or take for granted, that you are the sovereign ruler of your own life and world. In making decisions related to sexual behaviors, SAL philosophy urges all self-action leaders to respect sex, and to make careful and responsible choices in regards thereto. SAL urges everyone to maintain the utmost respect for the consequences that will flow into your lives—and the lives of those impacted and influenced by your choices—as a result of our thoughts, words, and actions.

Incidentally, after completing an 11-volume history of the world – The Story of Civilization – authors Will and Ariel Durant penned an abridged classic called The Lessons of History. Their intention was to offer something to future generations, “that might illuminate present affairs, future probabilities, the nature of man, and the conduct of states.”[4] On the subject of sex, the Durants wrote:

A youth boiling with hormones will wonder why he should not give full freedom to his sexual desires; and if he is unchecked by custom, morals, or laws, he may ruin his life before he matures sufficiently to understand that sex is a river of fire that must be banked and cooled by a hundred restraints if it is not to consume in chaos both the individual and the group.[5]

I invite you to carefully consider these words, especially in light of its context—a secular observation made not by preachers or moralists, but by prestigious historical scholars after a thoughtful consideration of the totality of human events since the dawn of recorded history. I don't know what the Durants thought about sex from a moral perspective; I only know that they understood history well enough to comprehend the epic historical calamities brought on by sexual permissiveness. Sex is a wonderful thing, but like so many other wonderful things in life, it can quickly and easily go awry if we are not disciplined and careful, and the consequences can be devastating.

Do not surrender your sexual sovereignty.


SHACKLE 9:
THE ABUSE AND NEGLECT OF LOVED ONES


Human beings are the smallest units in larger social systems. The second smallest unit consists of a committed, long-term, intimate relationship. The third smallest is the family unit. All big problems in a society or culture have their roots in individual, companion, and familial problems. The government cannot regulate, much less solve, micro problems that exist on the personal, interpersonal, or familial level. Individuals, couples, and families must control and regulate themselves and their interactions with others. Failure to do so has a ‘trickle-up’ effect, in which problems at the micro level manifest themselves throughout a society.

I travel a lot with my work, and I often find it fascinating how kind, respectful—even generous—complete strangers are to each other in airports, airplanes, hotels, restaurants, and rental car outlets. I often wonder how all these kind, considerate, mature people act when no one else is looking, or in their personal relationships and families. It would be interesting to know.


There is no error quite as true as to abuse those nearest you.



SHACKLE 10:
THE DISREGARD FOR, AND DEVALUATION OF, HUMAN LIFE


The disregard for human life often begins before human beings ever see the light of day, and continues on after birth. Throughout the world, including in all of our nation’s greatest cities, human life is often carelessly sacrificed on alters of drugs, ego, lust, narcissism, pride, revenge, and selfishness. The ultimate disregard for human life manifests itself in murder—the antithesis of life, opportunity, and human progress. It is the purest personification of irresponsibility, the endgame of the blame game, and the ultimate abdication of human nobility.

Far removed from murder, yet far more ubiquitous, is the devaluation of human life through inequality. By inequality, I refer to the idea that some human beings are somehow existentially superior to another. Such a belief is simply not true.

The truth is that every human being ever born possesses equal existential value. This value is complete, innate, irrevocable, and, I believe, eternal. Effective self-action leaders recognize this great truth. In-turn, they view and treat all human beings with the dignity, fairness, and respect that all members of the human race deserve.

The best leaders I have ever met are those that have internalized this great truth of existential equality. The following two examples personify this paradigm. Doctor Stirling Pack, Jr., is a former Senior Vice President of a Fortune 500 energy corporation. Through hard work and diligence, Pack rose through the ranks of his company to eventually become a ‘big shot’ that made millions and flew around the world on corporate jets.

Shortly before Pack retired, Nick—a lowly graphic technician—visited Pack in his office to present a thank you gift. Why? In Nick’s words: “You were the only senior officer that ever treated me like a human being.” Pack did not know Nick well. In fact, he had to think for a moment to recall how he knew Nick at all. Then he remembered: Nick had assisted Stirling a time or two in designing some slides for his executive presentations. That was the only association Stirling ever had with Nick. Pack did not tell me what he did or said to make Nick feel so valued; I don’t think he remembered himself. The point is that he did. Pack was the kind of leader who understood the great truth that no one is a “justa.” You know what I mean? “Just a” graphic technician, “just an” administrative assistant, “just a” custodian, or “just a” new hire. Stirling understood that existentially speaking, he was no better than Nick. As such, he treated him with the same kind of respect and regard as he would have treated his manager—the CEO of the entire company. All of the greatest leaders I have ever known share this trait with Pack.

Click HERE for full version of this original story about Stirling D. Pack, Jr., Ph.D.


Shortly after graduating from college, I got a part-time job as a retail salesman in a FranklinCovey store in Atlanta, Georgia. One day, my manager told me of an experience she once had with my Uncle Hyrum—a co-founder of the company. She and her colleagues were setting up a table of Hyrum’s books to sell at a national FranklinCovey symposium. As they worked, Hyrum—the Co-CEO of the entire company—just happened to walk by. Immediately, he jumped in and started helping them. My manager was surprised. Her comment to me was: “I didn’t think CEOs unloaded boxes.”

Hyrum’s actions left an impression on my manager that positively influenced her own leadership style. The story, in turn, left a positive impression on me. It continually serves as a reminder that no matter how high my own career ascent, I should never think myself too good or important to lend a helping hand when needed. And if that means scrubbing toilets (metaphorically or literally speaking), then so be it!

Click HERE for full version of this original story about Hyrum Smith.

THE TREES AND THE FOREST


One rotten tree does not a forest ruin. One bankruptcy in a hundred thousand doesn’t cause an economy to collapse. One crime of identity theft doesn’t result in a macroeconomic recession. One person who destroys one’s life and loses one’s family does not a country ruin. Allowing small numbers of people to take from, rather than give to, the national treasury is necessary at times in a just and merciful society. But as the number of selfish, self-indulgent, and undisciplined people grows, everyone suffers a little bit, then a little bit more, and so on in a downward spiral toward individual and collective decline and ruin.

If we continue to contribute to these problems, or collectively embrace and grant prestige to those who do, the ideals that made our nation great will fade away alongside our country’s greatness and moral authority. These TEN shackles pose serious problems to the United Sates of America and all other countries throughout the world. If we are to solve them, there must be more hacking at the roots of the problems, which always exist primarily inside the minds and hearts of individuals.

The numbers of takers and slackers is larger today than it has ever been our history. If we are not vigilant in retarding and reversing this treacherous trend, we will reach a tipping point with consequences more grievous than ever experienced previously. If unchecked indefinitely, we will eventually find ourselves just one of another ash-heap smoldering among the ignominious list of fallen empires. At Freedom Focused, we call upon men and women of integrity everywhere to reclaim American greatness by unleashing a new era fueled by education, integrity, character, and conscience.


Next Blog Post: Monday, December 15, 2014. Chapter 13: The Challenge & Quest to Become




[1] Anderson, L. H. (1999). Speak (Platinum Edition ed.). New York, NY: The Penguin
Group. Page 206.
[2] Ibid. Page 206.
[3] To read the entire article, visit URL: http://www.cnn.com/2013/11/26/opinion/jones-sex-consent-texting/ or search for the title “Young men, get a ‘yes’ text before sex” by Roxanne Jones
[4] From the Preface of Durant, W. & Durant, A. The Lessons of History. No page number (Google Books version). 
[5] Ibid.  FromChapter V. Character & History. Second-to-last paragraph.